Since you have tried most options already. You have ruled out most trouble shooting. Only thing left to do would be to try another USB port on your ps3. If that still fails. You will need to try another USB cable. Maybe test the cable out on your computer with a cellphone, camera, ipod, ect. If it works with one of those then we know it isnt the cable. It would come down to a defected controller or a faulty UPS port on your ps3 (Which is very rare)
It really depends on the postal service in your area. I live in TN, And my center is located in Tampa FL. It took three days to receive my first two games (Arrived on same day) and it took three days for them to receive my first game ive sent back. It is actually pretty quick! Very very satisfied with the time and manner in which the games were processed, shipped, and returned. Also depends on the game you have listed in your GameQ. and its popularity, In order to get new releases you need to add it to the top of your Q as soon as possible. Its more like a first come first serve. I recommend the first 3-5 games be upcoming releases that you really wanna play. then the rest of your Q the games that are currently out that you wanna enjoy now. Possibly the best way to go about it and speed up the process of getting your favorite games!
Love skyrim. Logged over 150 hours. it is worth it in my opinion. a dozen hours of extra gameplay for each of the DLC's, 30-36 extra hours of content which includes new locations, weapons and Armour types, new enemies. new spells ect. I'd Highly recommend the DLC's not just dragon-born if you do not have them
I just signed up for gamefly on 02/28/13. The next day they shipped out the game i had listed #1 in my gameQ. Gamefly is really great. Especially the two game out deal. play one game, return it, play the other one while the first game returns, rinse and repeat. But to answer your question it usually takes 2-4 days for the game to arrive. all in all though gamefly is a very cheap way to game! hope to see you as a member in the near future!